In our society today - and it has been this way for ages - we are at a crux of who has the biggest stick and who can yell the loudest. We are even putting science at the forefront of being able to break the tie. Of course, the scientific “facts” used are skewed in whatever way is necessary to prove either side's points.
This is my belief and I will show you the science that backs it. Wait, your belief is different from mine. I have science and proof that backs my claim. Your claim is manipulative and not true. My claim is correct.
We are ultimately at the role of “I know what is best for you! If I yell the loudest then I must be correct. If I stay calm and logical you will see the validity of my claim. If I have more power than you, I get to determine what is best for the whole. If I present an alternative and natural approach, then this is more valid.…..…”
As a society, we are going on and on in circles and missing the larger spiritual picture. We are missing the fact that we are living in a creative world - let alone the fact that we are spiritual beings.
We are missing the fact that we all create our realities. Yes, we create collectively, however, we have the ability to maneuver ourselves within any dynamic situation created by the whole. That is the nature and power of this creative world.
When you do not frame your life in the way that you are responsible for what you are creating and the other person is too, then you get sucked into the egoic perspective that “I know what is best for you.”
This is what is happening in our society because most do not realize they are creating their realities like everyone else. As such, we have a system on both sides of the paradigm that professes their way of doing things is correct.
Regardless of whatever choices a person makes, they must be in alignment with it. It may be a different decision than yours but it is theirs to make. Trying to guilt or manipulate someone into your way of thinking discounts the fact that we are creative beings.
Of course, when one makes a decision, it does not just stop at just being in alignment with that decision. Your reality - including your health - will always reflect the accumulation of your ability to be in alignment.
This means that even if you feel in alignment with whatever health decision you make for yourself, your health is going to reflect what else is happening to you as well.
So if you are going about your day judging, being critical, listening to conflict, watching conflict, getting angry, shouting, etc. then you are out of alignment with who you are. Thus, you are restricting the energy flow and therefore, your health is going to be negatively affected.
Listen to your Source
This is what is happening in the collective as a whole. We are also missing the fact that if we get into alignment and listen to our source, we will know what to do for ourselves.
Each person has the ability to do that. Each person has the ability to go within and follow what they are being led to do from within.
When you can own your power and stop giving it away to others, then you know what to do for your own health and healing. The problem is that we are not taught this and so there is massive confusion on what is right or wrong.
We are trained to believe there must be one correct way and if someone else is not doing it, then they are wrong.
What can you do?
If you really want to know how to serve someone in their decision-making process, then go within. This means quieting your mind, getting into alignment, and asking your source to guide you on the answer. The more of us who can do this, the more we step out of the paradigm of “one-size fits all” as well as “my way is better than yours”.