Manifesting a mate using the law of attraction?

Question

I am having a real hard time emotionally because of my desire for a relationship. How can I use the law of attraction to attract the perfect guy and can I use it to attract a specific person?

Answer

Why yes, you can definitely use the Law of Attraction to attract "the perfect guy", however, the use of the term "perfect" is relative. What I believe you are expressing is a desire to manifest the person who feels good to you. The best way to "use" the Law of Attraction to manifest your desired mate is to visualize and "feel" him into existence. Feel how you want to feel when he is in your presence. This is the best way in which to manifest a mate.

Noticing that you do not have a mate, however, will produce just that. Not having a mate. Pay attention to how you feel when you think about your mate. If it feels good then you are on the right track. If it does not, then you are not in alignment with your desires.

Each person is creating their own reality and inasmuch as there is a vibrational match to the "specific person" that you wish to manifest into your reality, will be the extent to which you have a relationship with them. Meaning if that specific person is in alignment with becoming a mate with you, then it shall happen. You cannot force it to happen. What will happen though if you are not a vibrational match with your specific person, is that you will manifest someone else of a similar vibration. They may even look the same and may even have some of the same emotional similarities, but they will not, of course, be that specific person.